![Praising the Lord for This Sick Day](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/victorian-classroom-children-150x150.jpg)
Praising the Lord for This Sick Day
I have spent so many years trying to cultivate gratitude, and occasionally it appears in my heart, unmistakably. This usually occurs in the dark, in silence, in the middle of a sesshin (a silent meditation retreat that lasts up to…
![Granny’s Prune Roast Makes Me Happy](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Sarah_Bethany_Beryl-150x150.jpeg)
Granny’s Prune Roast Makes Me Happy
I came across this picture of me, my cousin Sara who I have always adored, and my Grandma Beryl, Granny’s daughter. It is, by far, the happiest-looking Little Me I have ever seen. I loved being with the Jewish side…
![Holy Humiliating: The Day I Took My Husband to My Tennis Lesson (Part Two)](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/1900_2773vintage-tennis-art-wall-racquet3-150x150.jpg)
Holy Humiliating: The Day I Took My Husband to My Tennis Lesson (Part Two)
{Art from ScrapHacker.com} My next tennis lesson, since The Incident, is tomorrow. I am nervous to see my coach. Why? Because last time I saw him I was fighting back tears, barely able to move on the court, purposely laming…
![Holy Humiliating: The Day I Took My Husband to my Tennis Lesson (Part One)](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Vintage_tennis-150x150.jpg)
Holy Humiliating: The Day I Took My Husband to my Tennis Lesson (Part One)
I have done so many dumb things in my life I could start a new blog for each category of stupid (risky behaviors I did for men, e.g. tattoos, breaking and entering, etc.; things I quit and the lame reasons…
![I Never Knew I Cared: A Reverie on Ding-Dongs and Thanksgiving](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/DingDongs70s-150x150.jpg)
I Never Knew I Cared: A Reverie on Ding-Dongs and Thanksgiving
Amidst the news of more war between Palestine and Israel, another power-dude sex scandal, and an impending fiscal cliff, this morning, on the treadmill, luxuriating in my TV fix, I heard that Hostess is going out of business. Now, as…
![More on Witches](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/accused-150x150.jpg)
More on Witches
My new friend Trina and I have been having a spirited debate about feminism and feelings and rape and what it means to be on a witch hunt. I am so grateful that she has taken the time to explain…
![How Feminism Failed Me (and I, Apparently, Failed It)](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/big-witch-150x150.jpg)
How Feminism Failed Me (and I, Apparently, Failed It)
The backstory here is my November Chronogram column, something that I have been wanting to write for a long time: Flowers Fall: Non-Duality for President by Bethany Saltman, October 31, 2012 The policy [that legislated verbal consent at every…
![A Dispatch from Post-Sandy Manhattan, by Evie, my First Guest-Blogger](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/polesny-family-150x150.jpg)
A Dispatch from Post-Sandy Manhattan, by Evie, my First Guest-Blogger
My good friend, and on the weekends neighbor sent me this last week and I asked her if I could reprint it here, which would make her my very first guest-blogger. Welcome to my world, Evie! So this is a…
![Some Thoughts on Being Quiet and Powerless](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/hurricane-sandy1-150x150.jpg)
Some Thoughts on Being Quiet and Powerless
If I weren’t sitting at the funny conference table at the Emerson (the resort which happens to house a gym of which I am a member) gearing up for a shower, catching up on my work here, in other words,…
![My Piece from the Weeklings](https://isthismychair.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/kinfolk_vol5_2-150x150.jpg)
My Piece from the Weeklings
I wrote this a couple weeks ago, and now it’s up on The Weeklings. A few days after Frankenstorm, my house (and lower Manhattan) still dark, a few days before a Presidential election. My how things change. Oh well! The…